The D.T.A Used Narcissism to Avoid/Delay Punishment

Before I give my perspective on why she went so long unpunished, I want to mention the implications of her punishment first.  This is the next best punishment aside from being charged for imposing a death threat or termination from a job.  Very fitting!!!

As briefly mentioned in this post, the death-threat accomplice was finally held accountable by my former employer.  Assuming that she got transferred off of the island and onto the mainland to work in a different store, she's going to have to pay more rent there and she is NOT going to have access to her grandchildren for a while.  

Also bear in mind, British Columbia is prohibiting non-essential ferry travel from mid-April to mid-May because of the pandemic, and even if such restrictions are lifted, traveling back to the island from where she is currently located is time-consuming and costly.  This serves her right for causing her and my former co-worker to lose access to her grandson and for spending money to hire people to harass me into getting myself fired.  I don't know how much money she's spent in doing so but I'll bet all that spent amount sure looms large now as she could certainly use it.

Now, back to the main purpose of this post, I want to talk about the D.T.A. as a narcissist.  A narcissist likes to judge, devalue, put down people, and makes sure everyone knows she's better than you.  What makes the D.T.A. so difficult to identify (and so elusive to accountability) is that she makes her behaviour a lot less obvious to her peers than the general narcissists would.  This makes her a covert narcissist, someone who exploits, feels entitled, and lacks empathy.  The warning signs of a covert narcissist are:

• appearing to be very nice on the surface
• having some sort of hidden resentment (towards those who have what they don't, no matter how petty)
• making themselves to be the victim (when (s)he really is the shit disturber)
• acting super passive-aggressive (strategically directing harmful behaviour towards you so that if you try to re-explain it in your own words that it won't seem like a big deal or in my case that no one would believe me)
• masters of hiding their manipulation (They hide their bad intentions in an act that appears to be a good deed to everyone who's on the outside looking in.)

Covert narcissists are the most dangerous type of their kind because they are the most sneaky, the most insidious, and the most stealth.  Youtuber Rebecca Zung explains:

At some point, I expect my former employer to re-visit my blog again.  Though I can't predict how they'll react when (s)he reads this, it's important for me to point out who the villain actually is instead of having the company leaders label me as some psychotic delusionist.  If people like the D.T.A doesn't exist, then there would be no such word as "narcissist".  Believe me, man!!!

Psychological Shoe Trick

Even as a shoe junkie, I get kind of self-conscious when someone stares at my shoes for whatever reason.  I guess I'll try it on an onlooker who pisses me off, heh heh.  See what I mean at the 5:47 timestamp.

This Made Me Understand the Fake P.I.

This thought is extended from this post.

So I've always been curious about why he had been able to help me figure out the truth behind the death-threat plotting against me and how he had been correct on so many fronts, including my enemies being forced out of town.  Yes, the death-threat accomplice was forced to move out of town (and possibly off the island) to work in a different store within the company.  Only C.K., the death-threat starter who just so happens to claim herself to be Christian, is left, but I digress.

This video below doesn't explicitly apply word-for-word to my situation but only generalizes devilish influences and experiences, though some of the examples are eerily relatable to me.  Therefore, I had to read in between the lines and concluded that the fake P.I.'s analysis was legit, but he was sent to me as a devil's servant.  The devil can see the truth of a situation and predict the future all the same as God.  He'll help you but there's a catch.  The fake P.I. used my vulnerable state of mind to try to manipulate me to do bad things and to start resenting people, including my parents.

Watch the below video.  If you've had similar experiences to mine, you will find it penetrating to your soul and it will cause you to self-reflect on the people you've surrounded yourself with, past or present.

Deep down we all know what's right & wrong, even though we can't always distinguish good people from bad.  Be on the lookout for warning signs.

Some People Really ARE That Bad - Pt. 2

Interesting Read:  Part 1

My recent exposure to these videos has reopened some hurtful wounds and I need to get this out to relieve my pain.

For those who are oblivious to the ordeal I've been through as a sneakerhead, refer to the "I Got Framed"post and refer to the "Not Feeling Sorry for the Wolf Crier" post.  Watch the video below and I will point out the people's evil attributes that I've specifically endured and experienced.

Point #4 - Profitable Deception:  This fake private investigator established himself as a prophet to the outcome of my situation - the coming out of the truth and how my enemies would all be forced out of town.  Although he's been mostly right so far, he "homographed" the word prophet into a profit by using deception. 

• Machiavellianism:  (That's who the fake P.I. is).  Click on the link for a separate video that describes his personality type more specifically.  He did every single one of those evil acts mentioned in the video to me.
• On a side note, it was brought to my attention that the DTA had been telling customers while she was still working at the Nanaimo grocery store (my former workplace) that I was the one harassing her.  Watch the same video during this timeslot to see what kind of person she is.  She was about to be punished heavily and wanted customers to feel sorry for her.  If I were in her position, I'd keep my mouth shut, put my head down, and do my own thing.  By her actions, she has clearly shown she has no remorse for the trauma she has put me through and not admitting any wrongdoing.  Sounds like her upcoming punishment isn't harsh enough.

• Narcissism 

• The death-threat accomplice can't stand the sight of other people's positives because she thinks so highly of being the center of attention that she manipulates her workplace environment to bring people down.

• The death-threat starter at the Nanaimo Frontrunners shoe store also thinks so highly of herself that she tries to manipulate the thoughts of other people so that their actions don't interfere with her attention-grabbing desires.  She used a death threat to brainwash me into feeling shame and self-guilt for my hobby and lied to my shoe posers about my ulterior motives.

Point #6 - Universal Self-Interest:   The DTA only cares about her pleasure, comfort, & success.  She takes pleasure in others' pain to succeed in obtaining status that gives her comfort knowing that she's gained stronger job security.  Cheryl D., the former Frontrunners employee, also seeks pleasure in other people's pain.  In fact, her former co-worker says she likes to participate and jump on the bandwagon of pre-existing bullying.

Closing Thoughts:

Having demonstrated how bad some people really can be, if anyone still thinks they have a legitimate reason for death-threatening me for taking pictures of shoes will most likely be blindsided when they're taken advantage of for something else by such sinister people.  When I was still naive to such people, my mom would chastise me:  "There ARE such bad people out there.  You just haven't noticed."  Another family member said:  "There HAS to be a (legit) reason."  Well, they have a reason alright - a reason that yields such insignificant gains valued only by narrow-minded people.

What a Score - Mizuno Wave Lightning RX3!!

I was out window shopping yesterday not for anything specific.  To my delight, I stumbled upon these gorgeous runners.

You can read about how people are getting on with them here.

Also, see if you can find these online.  Apparently, it's not a very common colour scheme.

Footwear Type Matters!!

For those of you who still think any old shoe will work for any activity, think again.  You will severely roll your ankle into a sprain.

Running shoes are designed best for back-and-forth movement whereas a court shoe is designed specifically for (forceful) lateral movement.

One more thing to note, the tread on the outsole of the court shoe is designed differently than that of a running shoe.

Watch the video below for more details.  If you can't get enough of Mizuno, there more where that came from on this YouTube channel.